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The Beast With Two… Everythings!
Guest Blogger #16 – Clarabelle describes herself as a “daft teenager trapped in a 30-something’s body”. She sells vintage clothing, adores charity shops and doesn’t shave her ‘pits. She knows about a...
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‘I couldn’t do it. I’m too jealous’
Guest Blogger #17 – Bethany Carman Rutter writes the fatshion blog Arched Eyebrow. She also tweets quite a lot about a whole host of other topics, so I asked if she’d like to write a guest post for...
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So long, farewell, auf weidersehen, goodbye!
As you probably all know by now, I am about to begin two years of part-time study alongside my full-time job. I’ve spent the last few weeks planning and chatting to colleagues who have also done an MA...
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Thoughts on poly labels and hierarchies
When discussing polyamory with anyone – monogamous or otherwise – one of the things which often helps to explain what you mean is the use of labels. Like a verbal shorthand, labels are a great way to...
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My posts on BitchBuzz: Relationships
After a while of writing about sex for BitchBuzz, it became clear that I needed to write about relationships too. After all, the two subjects are so closely interconnected that it’s tricky to discuss...
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Gay, straight, bi… poly?
Some people describe being poly as an orientation, whereas others feel it is simply a matter of personal choice. To be perfectly honest, when the Poly Means Many bloggers chose this topic for...
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Sex Positive: Laci Green
Today I want to introduce you all to someone quite fantastic. While others are posting videos of cats and people falling over on YouTube, Laci Green is using her channel to educate people about sex....
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Only monogamy equals commitment?
One of the common misconceptions about nonmonogamous (including polyamorous) folk, is that they can’t commit. If they really loved someone, they’d stop all this nonsense. If we were really committed to...
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Ooh, shiny! The blinding powers of NRE
Do you remember what it feels like embark on a new romantic and/or sexual relationship? That wonderfully blissful high where your new partner can do no wrong, you just can’t wait to see them again, and...
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What happened to Valentine’s Day?
I’m not a fan of Valentine’s Day. It’s a Hallmark Holiday designed to make you feel guilty for not buying lots of unnecessarily pink/red/heart-shaped tat in order to show someone you care about them....
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Rubyyy Jones’ Holiday Wish List: Part 2
Hello darlings! I’m very excited to be bringing you part two of my Lustyyy Holiday Wish list and this edition is all about the ways you can give and make people feel fabulous without spending any, or...
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Seekrit Valentine 2014
Last February, I wrote about how much I missed the anonymous messages that used to be such a large part of Valentine’s Day. From the notes that we sent each other in school, to the short newspaper ads...
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Rubyyy Jones: Marvellous Mutual Masturbation Month!
Hello my darlings! Here we are again and it is March already! It is bound to be a very sexy stormy March with Mars in retrograde, the planet ruling S-E-X, blowing the lid off our fantasies and...
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The Super Humans of 2016
Since 2011 I have been publishing an annual list of people who have had positive impact on me in the previous 12 months and therefore, in my opinion, deserve an award for their greatness. These are the...
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My Posts on BitchBuzz: March 2012
Another month, another summary of the sex and relationships articles I’ve written for BitchBuzz. I’ve reviewed a book of sex tips and a writers’ conference, discussed the temptation we all get to...
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My Posts on BitchBuzz: April 2012
I have to admit that I didn’t write many sex and relationships articles for BitchBuzz this month. I had a short unplanned hiatus, but now I’m back with a vengeance! Hopefully the Cybher conference on...
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Sex and relationship advice
Who would you turn to for advice regarding issues in your sex life or relationship? If friends and family simply aren’t an option – not everyone can share their problems with people they know – would...
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My Posts on BitchBuzz: May and June 2012
I’ve been rather slack lately and realised I haven’t updated you on the articles I’ve been writing for BitchBuzz for a couple of months, so I thought I’d post a quick recap. This is everything by me...
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The Beast With Two… Everythings!
The Beast With Two… Everythings! How to avoid becoming a “We” Monster. We’ve all been caught up in the whirlwind of emotion when we start dating a new partner. They are endlessly fascinating and...
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So long, farewell, auf weidersehen, goodbye!
As you probably all know by now, I am about to begin two years of part-time study alongside my full-time job. I’ve spent the last few weeks planning and chatting to colleagues who have also done an MA...
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